(D)on't (B)e (O)ffended thoughts
I believe God's people have a greater responsibility than what we intially signed up for. Look at the fruit of the Spirit (love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.) If we are like trees planted by the river of water, none of our leaves shall wither and we will bear fruit in our season who consumes the fruit? Has there been a time that a tree eats it'w own fruit? I see the characteristics of the fruit of the spirit are like nutritional facts of what people should get from us. In this crazy world of chasing "success" and "happiness" we often produce fruit that doesn't glorify God but fruit that confuses people on how God is really like.